The idea of “No Contact” is hard. It was suggested that I initiate that in the very beginning of the end. However, I wasn’t ready. I think there is a process that goes along with no contact. That process is different based on the situation and the person. For me, I needed to make sure I tried enough times to know that I didn’t give up prematurely..doing so would have left even more unanswered questions. I now feel confident that I won’t wonder “what if I tried one more time”. I did try, I got my answer which was no answer. I didn’t give up. I let go. I’m ready for no contact.
There was a time when I was afraid I would never hear from “him” again….now I’m afraid I will.