When my x-ap disappeared last July, I knew there was another woman involved. I had known since May and could pretty much narrow down when that relationship started….despite all his lies to me.
I had always assumed he met her at a bar….maybe a waitress. He worked at night and got off around midnight. I knew he would go out for a drink sometime after work so it seemed reasonable that he met someone at a bar.
Well I just found out that was not the case at all. She actually worked with him…..and she is 23 years younger than him. I found myself replaying old conversations in my head and now believe that relationship started way before May. I’m shocked and I think I’m also hurt because now I believed he lied to me even more. He always talked bad about the people he worked with except “this one young girl” who often needed a ride home. I got the impression “this one young girl” was a teenager but I’m guessing 23 years younger is a “young girl” to him.
I shouldn’t even care and part of me wants to say….you picked her, you both left your job to go play house but neither of you have been working since then…. enjoy your life.
That’s all I’ve got now….just absorbing the latest news and need to get it out of my head.